A-Rod’s Press Conference

It’s odd to sit and watch A-Rod speak about his use of illegal use of a banned substance. However, its good to see him fessing up to his mistakes openly. I understand that he used steriods, and I understand that it was wrong. On the other hand, it was illegal to Major League Baseball, and was available over the counter. The substance itself was not illegal. What really strikes me is that numerous people want to crush A-Rod because he took performance enhancing drugs, yet the same people think that Micheal Phelps made a simple mistake when he took a hit from a bong. Could someone please explain this to me.

A-Rod took this substance in private. As a matter of fact, he even stated that he knew very little about the substance, wasn’t sure if the substance would work, and was not aware if he took the correct dosage to achieve the “proper” results. Nevertheless, people are outraged about him injecting this “energy enhancer”. A-Rod seems to be sorry for his mistake. Though I wonder what he thought he was getting through a syringe? Maybe he thought it was Redbull concentrate.

Phelps, on the other hand, goes to the Olympics to represent his country and openly breaks the law in a public setting (or at least public enough to get caught). Yet no one discusses taking his medals for the misrepresentation of American athletes. No one seems to care because it isn’t related to his sport. I wonder if people would overlook A-Rod if he said that he smoked marijuana in order to mellow out before getting stuck with a needle. I believe that people would be outraged with him. Not only would they throw him under the bus I think they’d put it in reverse and hit’m twice.

I’m not trying to say what should or should not take place. But it seems to me that the reason A-Rod is in over his head is becasue he took a substance that affected his performance on the field; while Phelps took a substance that had nothing to do with this swimming and effecting him and was a private choice that some people would say effected no one else. Are people upset because A-Rod has tarnished his integrity or because the record books may need an asterisk? It seems to me that people are more concerned about the numbers in the books than they are about the morals of a person. Good job America!

I’m glad A-Rod realizes he will have to regain the trust of the people around him. I hope that he will work with the MLB in order to have better testing and to take the testing into other sports. If someone is truely sorry they will try to make sure that others don’t make the same “mistakes”.

Top 10 Places You Have to Try Before You Die

Top 10 Places You Have to Try Before You Die

In no particular order:

Tiger Town Tavern

  • Clemson, SC
  • Must try: The Chris Patton (Bacon-Swiss Burger)
  • Pros: Great food, good service, great classic rock music, outside patio, no wait for lunch
  • Cons: Bar atmosphere

Joe’s Ice Cream Parlor

  • Easley, SC
  • Must try: Two Hotdog Special (all the way) on Mondays and Fridays
  • Pros: Hometown place, they bring the entire pitcher of tea, Cheerwine in glass bottles
  • Cons: Cash or check only. “Chilidogs” only have chili and no dog. Ask for a hotdog with chili. 

Beacon Drive-In

  • Spartanburg, SC
  • Must try: Cheeseburger A-Plenty Plate, BLT, Pig’s Dinner (Banana Split)
  • Pros: Amazing food, world famous sweet tea
  • Cons: Antacids are available in the bubblegum machine as you enter

Wade’s Southern Cooking

  • Spartanburg, SC
  • Must try: anything… they have it all
  • Pros: Meat and Three, Buffet
  • Cons: Can get crowded

The Moose Cafe

  • Asheville, NC
  • Must try: Fried Chicken and massive biscuits w/ homemade apple butter
  • Pros: Great food, tea served in mason jars, amazing view of the mountains, breakfast
  • Cons: Almost too much food to eat

Ancheaux’s

  • Clemson, SC
  • Must try: Black Jack (Blackened chicken sandwich with Monterey Jack and bacon)
  • Pros: Sandwiches, burgers and burritos! Homemade bread!
  • Cons: bring a crew and snag a seat… tables fill up fast and the wait can be up to 30 minutes

Murasaki

  • Greenville, SC
  • Must try: Lobster Roll and Clemson Roll
  • Pros: Great atmosphere, main street downtown, good service and food, raw and cooked sushi
  • Cons: Sushi isn’t for everyone

The Blue Ridge Brewing Co.

  • Greenville, SC
  • Must try: Carolina “Q” Sandwich (Pulled Pork)
  • Pros: Main street downtown, patio seating available, homemade ketchup and bbq sauce, reasonable lunch prices, micro brewery, wild game sampler (dinner only)
  • Cons: Pricey dinner menu

Smoke on the Water

  • Greenville, SC (West end)
  • Must try: Baby Back Ribs and West End Burger
  • Pros: Good prices, wonderful service, plenty of food, close to Falls Park
  • Cons: tricky to find parking

Yoder’s Dutch Kitchen

  • Abbeville, SC
  • Must try: Fried Chicken and Peach Pie
  • Pros: Homeade food, Amish Style, grandma’s cookin, affordable
  • Cons: Abbeville is a drive from the Upstate, peach pie only available when the peaches are in season

Commitment from the Pulpit

I was reading an article from the UMC Advocate and saw a quote I thought I’d share.

“It does no good to preach commitment!” declares the theology professor to the seminary students. Over the murmuring and objections that greet his words, one voice rises. “So, what are we supposed to preach then?”

“Preach the greatness of God. If people catch just one tiny glimpse of the greatness of God, they will not be able to help but be committed.”

Almost there

Seems like the economy continues to plague our thoughts. I saw a recent article on the news where a woman stated that “we need to fall on our knees and pray for God to save us.” Hate to break it to you all, but God sent Jesus to give us eternal life and the ancient Egyptians to invent these little financial life savers called scissors. Directions: 1.  Open scissors 2. Insert credit card between the two sharp blades 3. Cut card into tiny bits. We need to be praying that we will stop falling into the trap of consumerism, and then take action to prevent it in our lives.

It was good to have Jason back in the south. I had a great time catching up with him and discussing the differences between America and Australia. We also both exchanged gifts. He gave me his copy of The Shack which I have already began to read, and I gave him the opportunity to loosen up his shoulder with my 12 gauge. It was a lot of fun being able to step out in the backyard and rip into a coffee can.

At The Fellowship we’re currently in our series “What is Worship?” Last week we looked at tools that we use during worship such as the United Methodist Worship Planner, the UM Hymnal, and of course the Bible. Here are a few things we discussed:

  1. If worship were like a dinner table then the Bible would be the centerpiece of the table, Christ would be sitting at the seat of honor at that table, and we would be around that table eating and talking.
  2. The hymnal contains more than just hymns! Most hymnals (Methodist or not) contain prayers, worship services for things like the celebration of new members, Baptism, Communion, prayers of confession and pardon, responsive readings, and prayers from the saints.
  3. The worship planner is a great resource. It contains the lectionary as well as suggested hymns, anthems, visual aids, and liturgical colors.
  4. The worship planner could be used as a legalistic tool that causes us to lean on this book rather than the leading of the Spirit.
  5. The hymnal contains songs from post 1950!!
  6. The Bible has a concordance in the back that helps you to find Scriptures relating to particular topics.
  7. The Bible has this to say about worship:

“Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”

John 4:21-24(TNIV)

Hope all of you have a great weekend! God Bless!!

2009

It’s hard to believe that it’s 2009. Things seem to come and go so quickly. I know that there a lot of changes coming this year… some with me, some with the government, and some with sports. Here are a few things different for 09:

  • I’ll be married all this year. Kinda strange to think that I’ll have a roommate for a full year. Never done that before.
  • We’re getting a new president! No matter what you think about him it’s exciting.
  • Matthew Stafford and Knowshon Moreno will be leaving Athens for the NFL. Well… there went 75% of our offense. It’ll be interesting to see how the dawgs will adapt next season.
  • One of mine and Kristie’s goals is to get another car by August. This means two things: budgeting like mad and keeping our eyes open for deals. This’ll be the first car I’ve bought with someone. Probably won’t be hunting for an RX-8 or a Bronco this time around.
  • I really want to read through the Old Testament this year. I tend to preach from the New Testament a good bit, and I’d like to tilt the percentages back towards a 50-50. I think by reading through the OT I’ll open up my preaching.
  • Florida made it count by knocking off Oklahoma. I hate Florida with a passion. You can’t pull for Georgia and Florida… but I can pull for something bigger than the gators. I was glad to see the SEC claim another championship, and I couldn’t help rooting for Tim Tebow.
  • There are going to be a ton of reporters in Washington on January 20 for Obama’s inauguration, but I had no idea that Peter Parker would be behind the lens taking shots of the president.
  • I also never pictured the Red Sox picking up Smoltz! This could be yet another good year for Boston.
  • I’m really excited about what God is going to do in 2009. With as many things changes that have taken place in 2008 I wonder what He’s got in his back pocket for 2009.

What’s New?

First things first. I realized that I haven’t had a header on my blog in a while. I decided to change up the theme, but have yet to find a header I like. Tell me what you think, and what might look good as a header. I’m not a very artistic person so if I have ideas I’ll listen.

A brand new clutch, pressure plate, and bearing have been replaced. After dropping the engine, exhaust, sub-frame, axles, and transmission everything was back to normal. Thank goodness my neighbor is a technician and knew what he was doing.

The SC United Methodist website got a facelift. It looks great and is much easier to navigate. Salkehatchie also got an update.

Cody posted the other day about Twitter. I have an account but have yet to figure it out. I guess it’s time for me to get one now that the SC Conference has a twitter.

I had the chance to go to the YouthWorker’s Movement meeting in Columbia last week with Chris. I’m really excited about being a part of youth ministry connected throughout the conference. The speaker was Jennifer Williams from Bethany UMC in Summerville. She talked to us about the Advent Conspiracy and how Bethany UMC and the youth group have refocused during Advent this year. Most people don’t know where Summerville is located. Just a refresher, Summerville is one of the most active places east of the Mississippi for earthquakes… like the one that happened Tuesday.

Have a great Thursday!

UM Marketing

I love questions. Cody posted on my facebook about an article titled, Are We Hiding Our United Methodist Affiliation? and asked me about my thoughts. After checking the North Indiana Conference’s webpage I found that Granger Community Church is indeed a United Methodist Church. I had no idea. I’m not opposed to people not outright claiming that they are a part of the UMC. We do it all the time. You’ll hear people say “I attend St. Paul,” or “are you coming to Smith Chapel?” Though they never claim the denomination. Numerous UM churches are doing this. Check out The Church of the Resurrection in Kansas, or Harvest Church in Macon, GA. Both of these churches are parts of the UMC and are open to their connection. However, their names aren’t broadcasting that they are a UNITED METHODIST church, they broadcast being a united methodist CHURCH. They’ve placed their emphasis on being a part of the body of Christ, not being a part of the denomination.

My only issue with Granger (not that it is a notable one) is that their name is Granger Community Church. Typically, people look at the words “Community Church” as non-denominational. I would expect for them to still be loyal to their UM roots and not put on a facade of being a non-denominational church. The Church of the Resurrection, Harvest, and Frazer are all large congregations that are still openly linked to the UMC. I don’t think that using the cross and flame or the name Methodist are going to hinder the “success” of a church.

As far as the “Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors” campaign… I’m not sure how well it worked. I think that seeing the UMC as a partner for the Nothing But Nets Campaign is something that definitely boosts the UMC rating. When they see Methodist paired up with the NBA, VH1, Sports Illustrated, and the U.N. I think that they see United Methodists as people, not a denomination.

The church is facing a new generation. In the 50’s people came to church because they wanted to build strong families. Now we have people who want to see the church moving. They want to affiliate themselves with a body that isn’t dormant. The best thing that the church can do now is to stand up. As the church tackles cultural issues we must realize that people are no longer content with hearing what we should do from the pulpit; they want to see the Gospel active in our communities and they want to see churches stepping up to the plate. That is the best marketing that a church can promote.

Be careful what you pray for

I’ve been reading two books recently. Youth Culture 101 by Walt Mueller and at Russ‘ recommendation I’m also reading The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, 10 Year Anniversary Edition by John Maxwell. Both are great books. YC 101 reads like a well written text book and is full of stats as well as actually stories. 21 Laws is kicking my tail as I was told it would. Thanks Russ.

Thanksgiving was pretty awesome. It was mine and Kristie’s first big holiday together. We headed down to Georgia to meet at my cousin’s place. Gina and Thomas just had a baby boy, Dylan, back in August. It’s rare that my side of the family gets together since we are spread out from Florida to Virginia to Bama to Texas. Thanksgiving was great. I got to help fry a turkey (or at least video Thomas dipping it in). After we got done we watched video’s of propane tanks exploding on youtube.

Kristie completed her student teaching on Monday. Now all she has to do is walk down the aisle and get that very expensive piece of paper.

Yesterday was… eventful at best. Here’s how things played out:

I met with the Anderson District youth pastors (all three of us) at the Fuddruckers on Clemson Boulevard. It’s always good to catch up with Chris and Tommy. I guess Tuesday’s are busy for some. For me they’re sort of like second Mondays.

Kristie and I have both been excited about her graduating. The problem is that a number of schools in the upstate just aren’t hiring. Some districts actually have hiring freezes. We’ve been praying that she’ll be able to get into a school and yesterday Kristie got a phone call for an interview.

The car has been expanding my faith. By expanding my faith I mean dying. The little red key holder as Jason calls it, got me down to Anderson for the meeting which means I had to take I-85 for 13 exits. Made it to Fuddrucker’s just fine. While talking to Chris in the parking lot I told him to pray I didn’t die while going home on 85. Well I didn’t die, and neither did the car. Now comes highway 8. Now, 8 isn’t that bad. Actually, it’s the polar opposite of I-85. Most of the time you’ll be behind a tractor or see a cow in the middle of the road before you see someone doing over 55 miles an hour. So I begin my trek down highway 8. Things are going well and I’m not nearly as nervous as I was on interstate. I get through Pelzer, cross back into Greenville County and I’m 4 miles home. Then I remember the hill… rather the mountain of highway 8. I have felt the clutch slipping from time to time, and it has been getting worse and worse. I knew that I would lose speed going up this hill and would have to downshift… but I had no idea how the car would react to being pushed. Before you tackle the mountain you have the chance to gain some speed going down another hill. I took the chance. I pressed the gas getting the car up to nearly 70 by the time I was at the foot of the beast. As I began my quest to conquer I began losing speed. 65, 60, 55, 50… I downshift to 4th praying that I’ll make it. 45, 40… 3rd gear… 35, 30… 2nd gear… 25, but I’m almost there… 20, downshift to 1st! Come ON! 15, 10 I crest the hill and begin rolling down the other side only to remember another hill. It’s not nearly as steep but it’s about a mile long. I knew I couldn’t make it so I pulled over. Just then the phone rings. Judson King, the congregational specialist that is over youth ministry for the South Carolina conference. His next words were timeless. “Hank this is Judson King, how’re you doing today?” After talking to Judson I walk to Washington Baptist to see my old friend Rusty who gave me a ride over to my mom and dad’s place less than 2 miles away. I’ll be spending Saturday tearing into that transmission. Oh the joys of front wheel drive.

I must confess… the car is all Kristie’s fault. She prayed back in August, “Lord, I need this car to make it through student teaching.” The day after she is done it dies. Be careful what you pray for. Have a great day everyone!

Your Story

During The Fellowship on Sunday nights, the senior high group has been going through Bill Hybels book Just Walk Across the Room. Last night we discussed writing our own stories and how to use our stories to tell others about Christ. As promised, here are the 3 components that Hybels suggests you use in order to create your story:

What are the keywords or concepts that would describe who you were before you met Christ?

Make sure you include the fact that you came into a relationship with Jesus Christ.

What are the keywords or concepts that describe who you are after you began walking with Christ?

WNF Reading: 1 Kings 19, The Message

1 Kings 19

Revenge from Jezebel

Ahab reported to Jezebel everything that Elijah had done, including the massacre of the prophets. Jezebel immediately sent a messenger to Elijah with her threat: “The gods will get you

for this and I’ll get even with you! By this time tomorrow you’ll be as dead as any one of those prophets.”

When Elijah saw how things were, he ran for dear life to Beersheba, far in the south of Judah. He left his young servant there and then went on into the desert another day’s journey. He came to a lone broom bush and collapsed in its shade, wanting in the worst way to be done with it all—to just die: “Enough of this, God! Take my life—I’m ready to join my ancestors in the grave!” Exhausted, he fell asleep under the lone broom bush.

Suddenly an angel shook him awake and said, “Get up and eat!”

He looked around and, to his surprise, right by his head were a loaf of bread baked on some coals and a jug of water. He ate the meal and went back to sleep.

The angel of God came back, shook him awake again, and said, “Get up and eat some more—you’ve got a long journey ahead of you.”

He got up, ate and drank his fill, and set out. Nourished by that meal, he walked forty days and nights, all the way to the mountain of God, to Horeb. When he got there, he crawled into a cave and went to sleep.

Then the word of God came to him: “So Elijah, what are you doing here?”

“I’ve been working my heart out for the God-of-the-Angel-Armies,” said Elijah. “The people of Israel have abandoned your covenant, destroyed the places of worship, and murdered your prophets. I’m the only one left, and now they’re trying to kill me.”

Then he was told, “Go, stand on the mountain at attention before God. God will pass by.”

A hurricane wind ripped through the mountains and shattered the rocks before God, but God wasn’t to be found in the wind; after the wind an earthquake, but God wasn’t in the earthquake; and after the earthquake fire, but God wasn’t in the fire; and after the fire a gentle and quiet whisper.

When Elijah heard the quiet voice, he muffled his face with his great cloak, went to the mouth of the cave, and stood there. A quiet voice asked, “So Elijah, now tell me, what are you doing here?” Elijah said it again, “I’ve been working my heart out for God, the God-of-the-Angel-Armies, because the people of Israel have abandoned your covenant, destroyed your places of worship, and murdered your prophets. I’m the only one left, and now they’re trying to kill me.”

God said, “Go back the way you came through the desert to Damascus. When you get there anoint Hazael; make him king over Aram. Then anoint Jehu son of Nimshi; make him king over Israel. Finally, anoint Elisha son of Shaphat from Abel Meholah to succeed you as prophet. Anyone who escapes death by Hazael will be killed by Jehu; and anyone who escapes death by Jehu will be killed by Elisha. Meanwhile, I’m preserving for myself seven thousand souls: the knees that haven’t bowed to the god Baal, the mouths that haven’t kissed his image.”

Elijah went straight out and found Elisha son of Shaphat in a field where there were twelve pairs of yoked oxen at work plowing; Elisha was in charge of the twelfth pair. Elijah went up to him and threw his cloak over him.

Elisha deserted the oxen, ran after Elijah, and said, “Please! Let me kiss my father and mother good-bye—then I’ll follow you.”

“Go ahead,” said Elijah, “but, mind you, don’t forget what I’ve just done to you.”

So Elisha left; he took his yoke of oxen and butchered them. He made a fire with the plow and tackle and then boiled the meat—a true farewell meal for the family. Then he left and followed Elijah, becoming his right-hand man.

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